Day Twenty-Six: 5 things that irritate you about the opposite sex/same sex.
Yay for more lists! You know how much I love them.
Men
- Douche-baggery. There is nothing quite as unattractive as a complete jerk. I don't care how cool a guy thinks he is—if he treats people (especially women) like crap, I will write him off in an instant, no matter how physically attractive he is.
- No initative. It bugs the crap out of me when guys don't do anything for themselves, such as not asking girls on dates because they're afraid of girls or because they don't know what they want. You'll never get over a fear unless you face it, and you'll never start figuring out what you want if you don't start looking.
- Flakiness. I hate it when people say they'll go to something and then don't show. Or when they say, "Hey, we should do this," and then never follow up on it.
- Arrogance. If a guy thinks he's all that and a bag of chips, you can bet I won't.
- Whininess. Especially when it comes to dating. I understand that dating is a pain—I whine about it too much, and I know that. But you're the guy! You have every opportunity in the world to make dating be the way you want it to be! If a guy is smart in how he pursues a girl, he has a decent chance of getting her. Girls don't have the same luxury. Girls who pursue guys are scary.
Women
- Man-eaters. I seriously hate it when girls lead guys on. We're all doing the same thing in single Mormondom, and it's not fair to play with someone's emotions when they could be off trying to find a significant other elsewhere.
- Contrived giddiness. I hate it when otherwise normal girls become the giggliest things in existence when a boy enters the room.
- Brainlessness. So many girls don't think before they do something, especially in regards to men, and it annoys the tar out of me.
- Cattiness. I hate drama, especially of the female variety, because it usually revolves around some kind of perceived competition over a guy. I usually peace out when it gets to that point—if the guy wants me, he'll choose me. I shouldn't have to resort to cattiness to steal him from some other girl.
- Fakeness. If a girl doesn't like me, chances are that I don't like her either, and there's no reason to fake it. I'm not saying we should be openly hostile—we should still be civil. But don't act like you're my best friend. Because you're not.
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